NO, I'm still not packed! Andrew is taking tomorrow off, so we can get down to business. It's so hard getting ready to be gone for 8 days and getting a hubby and kids ready as well. We have to tomorrow........there's no choice!
I can't wait to see my baby girl! Andrew and I are so excited. I am trying to think of my favorite American foods to eat before we go. I think we're going to go have fried chicken tomorrow. That's my fav.
We are supposed to go into PGN either tomorrow or Friday. Our attorney's office is finishing up the preparations for our dossier. I'm glad that they are so specific with our paperwork. That will mean less obstacles later!
Post more tomorrow!
Wednesday, February 28, 2007
Ask me the same question as yesterday.....
Posted by LouLou at 5:08 PM 1 comments
Tuesday, February 27, 2007
Ask me if I'm packed yet......
And the answer would be NO! I know that I have to get busy TOMORROW. This time I'm not taking nearly as much as I did in January. Anne Pearce will only have 1-2 outfit changes per day instead of 3-4. Mommy only has so many pennies! I'm so tired right now, so I'll try to post more tomorrow. Hey, by the way, I will be in Guatemala in 2 days!!!!! Hooray!
Posted by LouLou at 7:17 PM 6 comments
Monday, February 26, 2007
I should be packing...........
Posted by LouLou at 6:20 PM 3 comments
The sign on the right says it all!
Maggie is waiting for her best friend to come home! She rode in the parade too!
Love to all
Posted by LouLou at 8:41 AM 1 comments
Friday, February 23, 2007
Very special people....
During this adoption process God has introduced us to some very special people. Through my Christian faith, He has led me to those who also love Him. Andrew and I feel so blessed to have SO many wonderful supportive people in our lives. We all know that God wants us to do things for His glory, not our own. I prayed for peace with AP's adoption, and He has given it to me, because I BELIEVE Him! Several people have commented on the strength of my faith. It's very important to me that you all understand that I also have moments of weakness and sadness. It's at these times that the Lord wants me to lean on Him and be held. I have learned this lesson late in life...., BUT it is such a valuable one. When I have the courage to let go and let God, He truly takes care of everything. Sometimes it's so hard to give it all to HIM. I want to fuss and moan and worry sometimes, but He has shown me that all that is useless. I'm choosing to spend my time and energy praising Him instead. All of you have helped give me the strenth to do that, and I thank you from the bottom of my heart.
I mentioned earlier that God had spoken to me about taking my sons on our pick up trip. We didn't have the money but didn't doubt that He would provide. In this week alone He has already worked through 4 Christian families. We now have enough to expedite passports and also have almost 1 entire plane ticket paid for. These precious people do not want public praise or glory. They heard the Lord and responded. He will bless them for this. To D,W,M,E, and W; know how much we love you and appreciate what you did. Andrew and I want you to know that we fully intend to do the same thing to help someone else in the future. How blessed you must have felt to be able to do that for us. We look forward to the day that we have the opportunity to pass it on. God is so good!
Lovealee!
Posted by LouLou at 7:04 PM 5 comments
No PGN today, but that's ok.
Posted by LouLou at 9:08 AM 9 comments
Thursday, February 22, 2007
My baby got her first tooth today!
I heard from Carolina that our little AP got her first tooth. It's the bottom one on the right. It's such a bittersweet moment for me. On one hand I'm so thankful that we even know this happened. On the other hand, it hurts, because I wish she was here with us. Andrew and I both feel very strongly that AP will be home in April, and we cannot and will not let our faith falter! It is sad knowing that we're missing so many "firsts".
When we were on the web cam today I was making funny faces and blowing kisses to AP. She smiled and said MAMA! I know she's only 4 and a half months old, but Carolina swears she says it every night when she shows her our pictures. My heart desperately wants to believe that my little girl remembers me and knows who I am. We are so blessed to be returning to our little precious next Friday! Then we can make some new memories. Our next trip there will be to bring our little one home! Keep praying, my warriors!!!
Happy Birthday, Karen! We love you and can't wait for you to be in Alabama!!
Posted by LouLou at 7:30 PM 5 comments
Wednesday, February 21, 2007
Our prayer chain....
OK guys, it sounds like several of us are wanting to start our prayer chain. We need to designate a certain time and day that we will all stop and pray SPECIFIC prayers for our babies. Send me an email with your baby's name and what stage or situation we need to pray for. Also throw out some ideas for times and days of the week. I am thinking Thursday either at 9:00am or 6:00pm. That should cover everybody, or we could do it on Saturdays. I'll compile a list and email everybody the specifics.
Send me your info to lou0728@yahoo.com .
Prayer Works!
Lou
Posted by LouLou at 5:53 PM 2 comments
I'm back to Blogland!!!
Ok, my husband is some big technical dude for a living, and I had to sit without being able to post all day on the day we get out of Family Court! Of course, as soon as he just SAT down at the computer it worked just fine......
Anyway, I am still on the getting out of Family Court high! God is so good isn't he? I have learned that when I just let go and let God wonderful things happen. I am actually excited to enter PGN, and I have no worries. I truly believe that Anne Pearce will be home by April. Andrew and I have both felt this since the beginning. Whatever happens we are just along for the ride. God has given Anne Pearce so many miracles since we started this process. In a future post I'm going to tell the entire story. He has surely blessed our daughter and our paperwork. He is hearing all the prayers from all the wonderful people praying for us and our daughter.
What do you guys think about making a specific prayer list with each baby's name and one specific thing to pray for like DNA, FC interviews, PGN, or whatever. We can all committ to praying at a certain time. Let me know what all of you think. After I talked to my hubby, Daisy, and Alisha I was obsessed with letting you guys know our news!! Thanks to Alisha for blogging when I couldn't. That is a real friend, pinch hitting in the blogging world!!!!
Posted by LouLou at 2:46 PM 6 comments
WE ARE OUT OF FAMILY COURT!!!!!!!!! YEAH!!!
This is Alisha Madden.....I am currently on the phone with Lou!!! She can't post to her blog, but we had to tell you all.....AP IS O-U-T!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
She will post later!!!! Bring it on PGN!!!!!!!!
Our contact in Guatemala told her that she should be in PGN by THIS Friday!! YIPEEE!!!!!!!
:):):):):)
Posted by LouLou at 8:41 AM 4 comments
Monday, February 19, 2007
A Special Thanks!!
Posted by LouLou at 4:18 PM 7 comments
Little Olivia.....
Moms..... can you guess what she's doing? The itsy bitsy spider!
Posted by LouLou at 7:09 AM 3 comments
Sunday, February 18, 2007
Check out this site!
It's about a young Christian artist!
http://tinyurl.com/yxewot
Posted by LouLou at 4:11 PM 1 comments
Saturday, February 17, 2007
I had a web cam conference with Anne Pearce!
We are so blessed to have such a wonderful foster mother. Carolina took Anne Pearce to the internet cafe so I could see her. I took these pictures with my digital camera, so they aren't that clear. I was just SO happy to see her. 12 days and counting until this precious girl is in my arms again!
Look at the smile on that face! I was talking to her, and she had the headphones on. "Hello, Mommy!"
Look at those lips. She does that often.
Mommy, I hear you, but I can't see you! Where are you? Come and get me!!!
Posted by LouLou at 7:05 PM 8 comments
Friday, February 16, 2007
Miracles happen every day!
A few nights ago my youngest son, Hayden, came to me a little distressed. He explained that he didn't want anyone to come to the airport or by our house for a few days after the baby comes home. He said that he wouldn't let anyone else hold her. He said that he and Logan would need a chance to get to know their new sister before everyone else "got their hands on her."I thought and thought about what he said, and I began to see how important it is that they be able to go with us for the pick-up trip. After all, they are a huge part of this family, and this affects them as much as it affects us. I guess it would kind of be like me having a baby biologically and them not get to come to the hospital. The down side of this is that it will cost a lot more to take 2 more people as all my adopting friends know very well. I prayed that night and asked God to show me if He wanted them to go. Today my mom and I went to lunch then stopped in a little shop in town. This shop has been very supportive in our adoption. When we were in the middle of our fundraising we made handmade crosses to raise money (that story is on an earlier post). This store sold our crosses and gave us all the money. The store clerk was asking about the progress in AP's adoption, and I started telling her the story about all of us wanting the boys to be able to go. A complete stranger was in there, and she joined in our conversation. We all discussed how good God is, and I described some of the miracles the Lord has shown us in this adoption. I could feel God's presence as we were talking. I knew in that moment that He would provide the means for the boys to go. As I was leaving the store the clerk came up and gave me a big hug and an envelope. In that envelope was $25 from her and $100 from that complete stranger! I cried, she cried, and my mom cried. God spoke to us all right there, and showed us what he wants us to do. We have a lot more money to raise, but this is a wonderful start. I intend to start the paperwork and get the boys' passports. I know the rest will come. I have learned that when I put all my faith in God and give Him all the glory wonderful things happen. It was no coincidence that we just "happened" to be in the same shop as that kind stranger. God puts us in situations all the time and gives us the opportunity to give Him praise and share our Christian experience with each other. All this is part of my Heavenly Father's plan to bring my daughter home. I can now see how important Logan and Hayden being there is to Him! It's not about doing what WE want...it's about listening to Him and doing HIS will. I love seeing God working in all our lives. The things that we all go through during this adoption journey are difficult for us, but our faith and trust gives others the strength THEY need in their lives. We touch so many lives through this process, and let's give HIM ALL THE GLORY!
Love and blessings to you all,
A very happy and humble mommy, Lou
Posted by LouLou at 12:59 PM 5 comments
Thursday, February 15, 2007
It was one month ago today that we met Anne Pearce.....
Posted by LouLou at 4:13 PM 6 comments
Message from Anne Pearce!
Posted by LouLou at 12:38 PM 3 comments
Wednesday, February 14, 2007
Happy Valentine's Day
Posted by LouLou at 6:36 PM 3 comments
Tuesday, February 13, 2007
We have Pre-Approval!
What a happy day this is!!!!
Posted by LouLou at 8:27 AM 11 comments
Monday, February 12, 2007
I just talked to Anne Pearce on the phone!
And her foster mom, of course! We are so blessed to have the foster family that we have. They are definitely a gift from God! More about the baby: Carolina says that the interview was wonderful. We all prayed for a speedy social worker, and Carolina says ours was so nice. She said that many of them are angry people, but ours was so sweet. They all said how beautiful Anne Pearce is, and Carolina said several foster mommies said that they wanted her! Carolina told them, "No, her mommy is dying for her." Carolina also said that the social worker told Anne Pearce that she would do her work fast for her, and said "ok baby, you go to U.S. very soon. Don't worry you be with Mommy very soon." Talk about answered prayers. I have been so distraught lately, and then I see how God has been taking care of us all along. We had to wait to get into Family Court, but when we did we got the perfect worker! I know it's hard for all of us waiting every day to hear about our children, but God is doing things even when we don't know about them. He is truly taking care of our children! Thank you God!!!!
Carolina had a chance to talk with Anne Pearce's birthmom. She said that she was very quiet and normal. She kissed Anne Pearce and told her how much she loved her and said you will be happy daughter, and have a good future. She also told Carolina that she would be thankful to us for the rest of her life. That we were a blessing to her, and that sending her to us was the best decision and gift she could ever give her daughter. How unselfish is that?? Anne Pearce is so loved by all her mommies. God has blessed us all in so many different ways, and he brings us all together for His good work and perfect plan. I will always be thankful to all the women who care for my daughter until I can. They deserve my lifelong love and respect. Please pray for all of them.
Anne Pearce weighs 14 lbs. and 7 oz. Carolina said that they changed her formula....I couldn't really understand why. She has also started eating bananas and apples. She is rolling over, and they said she wakes up laughing and playing in her crib. What a happy baby we have! We can't wait to be back with her. 2 weeks, 3 days, and counting! Thank you all my wonderful friends. I feel like I have my very own personal therapy and support group. You ladies rock!
Love to all,
Lou
Posted by LouLou at 8:47 AM 3 comments
Saturday, February 10, 2007
I turn into a screaming fool at a Mardi Gras Parade!
Here are my McVays. I promise Maggie was having a great time even if she doesn't look like it!
Daisy and Wyatt are so sweet to share Maggie with us. We love her so much! Check out her beads.
Mardi Gras, Fairhope style!
I was too busy screaming to take too many pictures of the floats!
Posted by LouLou at 7:52 PM 8 comments
Happy 4 month birthday, Anne Pearce!
something mister!" Our little Maggie is going with us (her parents, too) for her first Mardi Gras parade. Our boys are off hunting with their dad, so they're not here. I'll let you know what Maggie thought. I love the parades!
Thank you all again for being my cheerleaders. What would I do without you?
Posted by LouLou at 9:18 AM 7 comments
Friday, February 9, 2007
Anne Pearce's boyfriend....
Posted by LouLou at 9:55 AM 2 comments
I'm having a tough time today....
Poor Andrew and Daisy....they catch the brunt of my negativity! I am just so SAD. First of all, let me say that I am so happy for all of my friends who hear great news. I pray for all our babes every day, and I can't wait for them ALL to be home. It's just difficult when others are flying by and AP is still sitting still! I saw a post on the boards today. A baby girl over 2 weeks younger than AP just got out of PGN! We are still in Family Court. I know that God has a plan, and that He will bring her home. My faith gets me through this, but there are times when I just want to bang my head up against the wall. I know that AP has probably seen her birthmom by now at her interview. My stomach is in knots!!!!
Our little angel will be 4 months old tomorrow. I just want her home. Nobody ever told me that this adoption process would be easy, but sometimes I can't believe just how difficult it really is. Don't you all freak out......I am ok........I just miss the baby! I continue to pray for good news for ALL of us. YOU guys out there help me get through all this!
L
Posted by LouLou at 8:41 AM 5 comments
Thursday, February 8, 2007
You all know that Anne Pearce NEEDED some more clothes for our next trip!
Posted by LouLou at 2:57 PM 2 comments
Stomach Bug has been squashed!
Posted by LouLou at 2:24 PM 1 comments
Wednesday, February 7, 2007
I got food poisoning today!
For real! I went to Daruma in Daphne which USED to be one of my favorite restaurants. Today I thought I was dying!!!!! On a brighter note, maybe I lost some weight....hahaha! Anyway, I am better but not up for much. We did hear from our foster mom via email, and from what I can gather she says that they will be in contact with me Saturday. Remember that the Family Court interview with AP's birthmom is Friday. Please pray for all of us.
More later,
Lou
Posted by LouLou at 5:54 PM 5 comments
Tuesday, February 6, 2007
One more of Maggie.....
Posted by LouLou at 4:45 PM 2 comments
Me and my friend, Maggie
LouLou trying to steal a kiss. She usually gives them freely.....
Posted by LouLou at 4:29 PM 1 comments
Monday, February 5, 2007
We have finally heard about the birthmother interview!
It is scheduled for Feb. 9. I'll tell you what....so far on this case our stuff takes SO much longer than everyone else's. We have been in FC since Jan. 18. Most people have their interview the next week! I just have to believe that God will make up this time later! After the interview it usually takes 2-3 weeks for the social worker to write the report, then on to PGN. Atleast we know now that we will actually have an interview, since we thought it would be LAST week. Can you tell I'm a little bit snippy this morning???
Poor Hayden is still home with me today. He is running a low grade temp and just feels crummy. He has missed more school this year than he ever has before. He seems to be catching everything!
One month from now I will be holding Anne Pearce, and I PRAY that we are in PGN.
Lou
Posted by LouLou at 8:14 AM 2 comments
Sunday, February 4, 2007
By the way.....
Have you guys looked at our counter lately??? I am amazed by the number of people who check us out. Of course, I do check it myself several times a day, and those count too!
Posted by LouLou at 4:47 PM 3 comments
Happy Sunday!
Hope everyone has had a great weekend. We didn't get to go to church today, because my Hayden is sick. His tummy has hurt and he has a low grade fever....just enough to make him feel yucky. I hope the kid makes it to school tomorrow. He has a couple of projects due!!! A mother's work is never done!!!!!
Monday is always a good day in adoption......We wait all weekend for MAYBE some news on Monday. Our translator is back home in Guatemala now, so we should be hearing from him sometime tomorrow if not from our agency.
I would love to get some good news!!!
Later,
Lou
Posted by LouLou at 3:55 PM 2 comments
Saturday, February 3, 2007
Some of my favorite pictures...
I love pictures of Anne Pearce's hair when it's wet!
Look how cute and happy I am!
Some people say I look like my mommy!
I actually held Abbie while we were waiting on Anne Pearce to come meet us! Isn't she tiny?
This is my friend, Karen, loving on Abbie. I think this picture is so sweet......
Posted by LouLou at 4:04 PM 3 comments
Wish I had ANY real news to post.......
Posted by LouLou at 3:45 PM 1 comments
Thursday, February 1, 2007
Another normal day......
Not much going on here. I would be embarrassed to tell you all how late I slept today. There was no way I could brave shopping in the rain. As much as I love to shop, I don't love it that much. Karen braved the rain and bought her "Guatemala" wardrobe. Four weeks from tomorrow I will be back with Anne Pearce. I pray that her case has had A LOT of movement by then. I haven't heard back from the attorney regarding our birthmother interview date. I should hear from our foster mother either tomorrow or over the weekend. Hopefully she'll have some news. I am not good at being patient. I want things to happen NOW. I know, I know, God has perfect timing, and it's not MY timetable. I do trust HIM, and I am doing better. I know that all your prayers for me have been heard.
Please leave comments on the blog. I see that we have lots of hits, but not many of you leave them for me. You don't have to have any kind of special account......just sign in under anonymous. It would be great to have someone talking back. Otherwise this is a one sided conversation!!!
More later,
Lou
Posted by LouLou at 7:05 PM 8 comments